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What It’s Really Like Being a Stay-at-Home Mom
It’s hard. It’s messy. It’s exhausting. Yet somehow, people still have the audacity to say, “You get to stay home all day… that must be so nice. That’s so easy.” If you have never experienced being a stay-at-home mom… respectfully… keep your mouth shut. Yes — sometimes it is nice being home with my babies. I won’t deny that. I get the cuddles. I get the moments. I get to watch the milestones happen in real time. And I am deeply grateful for that. But the ugly side? The unfilt
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Dec 7, 20253 min read


Co-Sleeping: The Controversial Topic No One Prepares You For
Co-sleeping. A controversial topic. Some people are deeply against it, and some people swear by it. Me? I do whatever keeps my sanity intact and my eye twitch to a minimum. Let’s start with my firstborn, Miss Lenoxx. She slept like an absolute champ. Honestly, she spoiled me. She didn’t need the constant access to food (aka the boobs) and she didn’t need the constant cuddles. This actually explains a lot now — she’s my little Miss Independent Sassy Pants. Of course, there wer
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Nov 13, 20252 min read


