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When Life Feels Overwhelming: Small Wins in a Busy Farm Mom Season
Overwhelmed mom life, spring break chaos, small cleaning wins, and finally finding a formula that works—real life on the farm.
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13 hours ago2 min read


I Yelled at My Kids Last Night — An Honest Mom Confession
I yelled at my kids last night after asking them to brush their teeth ten times. Mom guilt is real—but so is making things right.
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Mar 72 min read
It’s Not About the List (Even Though I Keep Making One Anyway)
To all the moms out there with a list a mile long who feel absolutely defeated when nothing gets checked off… I see you. I’ve been you. I AM you. Probably right now. Every morning I try. I really do. I make a plan in my head (or on paper, or on my phone… because apparently one list isn’t enough). TO DO: Fold the laundry that’s been living in bins in the kitchen for two days. Clean the bathrooms. Vacuum. Wash the floors. You know—the usual “I will absolutely not finish this” l
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Jan 92 min read


What It’s Really Like Being a Stay-at-Home Mom
It’s hard. It’s messy. It’s exhausting. Yet somehow, people still have the audacity to say, “You get to stay home all day… that must be so nice. That’s so easy.” If you have never experienced being a stay-at-home mom… respectfully… keep your mouth shut. Yes — sometimes it is nice being home with my babies. I won’t deny that. I get the cuddles. I get the moments. I get to watch the milestones happen in real time. And I am deeply grateful for that. But the ugly side? The unfilt
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Dec 7, 20253 min read


☕ Coffee, Chaos, and the Teacher Strike ☕
We survived the first week of the teacher strike… barely. If you’re out there running on caffeine and chaos, splitting up sibling fights,...
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Oct 12, 20252 min read
Sassy Sisters, Messy Rooms & Mom Sanity
“That’s my toy!” “Give it back!” “I don’t want you for a sister anymore!” Those are just a few of the daily catchphrases I hear from my...
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Aug 27, 20252 min read


Mom Shaming is NOT Cool
Motherhood is messy, loud, exhausting, and beautiful—what it doesn’t need is shame. In my latest post, I get raw and real about mom shaming, keyboard warriors, and why kindness matters. Every mom is doing her best, even if that means surviving on caffeine, chaos, and chocolate in the pantry. Let’s stop the judgment and start supporting one another.
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Aug 26, 20252 min read


Postpartum Nesting: The Sequel Nobody Warned Me About - I'M PURGING THE HOUSE!
Kids stuff, baby stuff ... just STUFF! I always heard about nesting when you’re pregnant. You know — the uncontrollable urge to clean,...
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Aug 14, 20252 min read

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