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Itâs Not About the List (Even Though I Keep Making One Anyway)
To all the moms out there with a list a mile long who feel absolutely defeated when nothing gets checked off⊠I see you. Iâve been you. I AM you. Probably right now. Every morning I try. I really do. I make a plan in my head (or on paper, or on my phone⊠because apparently one list isnât enough). TO DO: Fold the laundry thatâs been living in bins in the kitchen for two days. Clean the bathrooms. Vacuum. Wash the floors. You knowâthe usual âI will absolutely not finish thisâ l
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Jan 92 min read
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What Itâs Really Like Being a Stay-at-Home Mom
Itâs hard. Itâs messy. Itâs exhausting. Yet somehow, people still have the audacity to say, âYou get to stay home all day⊠that must be so nice. Thatâs so easy.â If you have never experienced being a stay-at-home mom⊠respectfully⊠keep your mouth shut. Yes â sometimes it is nice being home with my babies. I wonât deny that. I get the cuddles. I get the moments. I get to watch the milestones happen in real time. And I am deeply grateful for that. But the ugly side? The unfilt
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Dec 7, 20253 min read
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â Coffee, Chaos, and the Teacher Strike â
We survived the first week of the teacher strike⊠barely. If youâre out there running on caffeine and chaos, splitting up sibling fights,...
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Oct 12, 20252 min read
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Sassy Sisters, Messy Rooms & Mom Sanity
âThatâs my toy!â âGive it back!â âI donât want you for a sister anymore!â Those are just a few of the daily catchphrases I hear from my...
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Aug 27, 20252 min read
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Mom Shaming is NOT Cool
Motherhood is messy, loud, exhausting, and beautifulâwhat it doesnât need is shame. In my latest post, I get raw and real about mom shaming, keyboard warriors, and why kindness matters. Every mom is doing her best, even if that means surviving on caffeine, chaos, and chocolate in the pantry. Letâs stop the judgment and start supporting one another.
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Aug 26, 20252 min read
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Postpartum Nesting: The Sequel Nobody Warned Me About - I'M PURGING THE HOUSE!
Kids stuff, baby stuff ... just STUFF! I always heard about nesting  when youâre pregnant. You know â the uncontrollable urge to clean,...
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Aug 14, 20252 min read
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