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It’s Not About the List (Even Though I Keep Making One Anyway)
To all the moms out there with a list a mile long who feel absolutely defeated when nothing gets checked off… I see you. I’ve been you. I AM you. Probably right now. Every morning I try. I really do. I make a plan in my head (or on paper, or on my phone… because apparently one list isn’t enough). TO DO: Fold the laundry that’s been living in bins in the kitchen for two days. Clean the bathrooms. Vacuum. Wash the floors. You know—the usual “I will absolutely not finish this” l
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Jan 92 min read


The Last Day Before Christmas Break
As we head into the last day of school before Christmas break, I’m reminding myself to breathe. To slow down. To let things go. This season is beautiful, but it’s also loud, messy, overstimulating, and exhausting—especially as a mom. I find it hard some days to keep my girls entertained while I’m tending to Cyrus and juggling the never-ending list of things that need to be done. Laundry, dishes, meals, appointments, cleaning up messes that somehow appear out of nowhere… all w
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Dec 18, 20252 min read


What It’s Really Like Being a Stay-at-Home Mom
It’s hard. It’s messy. It’s exhausting. Yet somehow, people still have the audacity to say, “You get to stay home all day… that must be so nice. That’s so easy.” If you have never experienced being a stay-at-home mom… respectfully… keep your mouth shut. Yes — sometimes it is nice being home with my babies. I won’t deny that. I get the cuddles. I get the moments. I get to watch the milestones happen in real time. And I am deeply grateful for that. But the ugly side? The unfilt
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Dec 7, 20253 min read


Co-Sleeping: The Controversial Topic No One Prepares You For
Co-sleeping. A controversial topic. Some people are deeply against it, and some people swear by it. Me? I do whatever keeps my sanity intact and my eye twitch to a minimum. Let’s start with my firstborn, Miss Lenoxx. She slept like an absolute champ. Honestly, she spoiled me. She didn’t need the constant access to food (aka the boobs) and she didn’t need the constant cuddles. This actually explains a lot now — she’s my little Miss Independent Sassy Pants. Of course, there wer
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Nov 13, 20252 min read


My Secret Love Affair with 6 A.M. Coffee ☕
I used to hate mornings. The grogginess, the puffy eyes, and worst of all…leaving the comfort of my nice, warm bed. I love sleep—let’s...
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Sep 29, 20252 min read


The Night I Almost Lost My Cool
Last night was one of those nights. The kind of night that tests every ounce of patience you thought you had left. Cyrus was...
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Sep 18, 20252 min read
Sassy Sisters, Messy Rooms & Mom Sanity
“That’s my toy!” “Give it back!” “I don’t want you for a sister anymore!” Those are just a few of the daily catchphrases I hear from my...
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Aug 27, 20252 min read


Mom Shaming is NOT Cool
Motherhood is messy, loud, exhausting, and beautiful—what it doesn’t need is shame. In my latest post, I get raw and real about mom shaming, keyboard warriors, and why kindness matters. Every mom is doing her best, even if that means surviving on caffeine, chaos, and chocolate in the pantry. Let’s stop the judgment and start supporting one another.
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Aug 26, 20252 min read

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